Thursday, January 03, 2008

Now how true is this?

"..Of the many things I was forced to realize in reflecting on the time spent with.., perhaps the most sobering and terrifying was the understanding that the strongest and deepest bonds we form in our lives are with people who know how to hurt us in the most devastating ways.."

I feel the other way is truer than this. You can get hurt only if you care.

Any opinions?

4 comments:

Maddy said...

u r looking ahead and the statement is a reflection...if u go by your way, one wud dread to care and love somebody...its like he/she is saying that: "Not all peope who u care for and bond with hurt you but those who do hurt are usually the ones u care the deepest about"...donno if tht makes any sense :D

Unknown said...

I feel this is quite true... I've also read about this somewhere...that
"..people who know how to hurt us in the most devastating ways..are the people who can also make us happy the most...coz these ppl are said to be very close to ur heart else u wont get hurt so much..."

Well.. this doesnt make sense at all times, but it does sometimes! what say?

Cane-an said...

That was a profound statement Josh and very very true....

Why are we getting so philosophical lately?

vinu said...

the people with whom we bond 'know' how to hurt us..agreed. But the bonds are strong and deep coz we know that they 'will not' hurt us.